Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus - John  Gray I read this ages ago! It is one of those books that will change how you look at all discussions with the opposite sex. It is an important book to read. After all these years I still remember the basic concepts put forth in the book. It has clearly changed how I view my husband's and my own differences in behavior and opinions. It has definitely had an impact on how I deal with controversies. For these reasons I have chosen to give the book 4 stars. Natalie, you reminded me that I had read this book. I have it somewhere.....